Keeping The Fire Glowing In Relationships

When we first get in relationships, life is all roses, butterflies, and rainbows. I know I personally love what is called the “honeymoon phase” because both parties put their best face forward and everything seems peachy. However, after awhile, the heat and passion in the relationship may start to fizzle for whatever reason. What to do now?!! Don’t fret. Take a look at these five ways to keep the romance going (especially since it’s getting rather nippy out).

1. Realistic expectations: Just keep it real with yourself!! Don’t live in an imaginary world because reality has a way of harshly reminding us to snap the hell out of it! Of course the honeymoon phase is lovely (that’s why it’s called the honeymoon phase). However, life may throw a new job at you that’s demanding and limits your time with your boo. Having a child takes the attention off of you two as a couple and places it on your bundle of joy. That’s life so accepting this aspect of it can work wonders for your sanity and relationship.

2. Physical content: In the age of Twitter, blogs, Facebook, Pinterest, and other sites, our attention is definitely divided when it comes to spending time with a significant other. Whenever I’m with my boyfriend on a date, I let it be known that the phone should be used minimally, if at all. My time is my time and I don’t feel the need to share! Therefore, if you’re spending TIME, actually give your significant other your attention.

3. Periodic re-connections: Good morning/good night texts are perfect for this! Throughout the course of the day, a simple message can let your significant other know that he/she is on your mind. Going the entire day without communication may work for some, but for others, communication is essential. Women, I know most of us have the tendency to ramble on about EVERY detail that happened to you throughout the day, but save this for when you can actually speak to your boo in person. It will connect you two better.

4. Shift gears: Don’t bring the stresses of your job home. If a co-worker made you mad at work, don’t bring that negativity home and have an attitude with your significant other. Make sure you separate your business side from your personal side.

5. Spice things up in the bedroom: Don’t be afraid to try something new!! Maybe take a trip to the nearest sex store, watch a video, or just try a new position. Being open to try new things is a key element to ensuring that your sex life doesn’t get boring.

Try these things and see the sparks fly again!

Source: drbarbarawinter.com