You’ve been there before. Sitting on your friend’s couch over homemade mixed drinks discussing whether or not the guy you’re dating is really serious about building a future with you. You’ve asked him and he’s given you a pretty textbook answer, “Of course I am. If I wasn’t, I wouldn’t be with you,” but he’s still not making some of the moves you think he should be making to solidify his love and desire to spend the rest of his life with you.
Luckily, my favorite Canadian friend (well my only Canadian friend LOL), Lincoln Anthony Blades, has some advice that should help you find out if a guy is really serious about you or if he’s feeding you total bullsh*t.
According to Lincoln, “a man who is extremely serious about you will want you to be a part of most, if not all, of his life.”
He goes on to say that if a guy isn’t very serious about you, there will be several parts of his life that you simply won’t be a part of. This doesn’t include meeting his parents and friends, because apparently some guys (especially those that are emotionally unavailable or not serious about anything) will let you meet them if it means they get to sleep with you a few times. But, if he’s really serious about you, you will know everyone who is important to him and they will know you and how important you are to him.
In other words, professing his love for you on social networks or a lack thereof has no value when it comes down to finding out the real deal about your relationship.
What do you think? Do you agree with Lincoln? Let us know! You can also check out Lincoln’s website This Is Your Conscience for more.