So about a month or two ago this guy was trying really hard to take me out on a date or what not. I knew the guy from high school and probably would have taken him up on the offer had I been interested and ready to start dating someone again.
We follow each other on Twitter and Instagram and I started (almost right after he asked to take me out) seeing photos of him and his girlfriend. At this point I was a little confused.
So, I get on Facebook today and see their engagement photos and couldn’t help but wonder why he even tried to take me out and all that if he was involved with someone. It is 2012, almost 2013 and guys are really out here lying about having girlfriends?
I don’t get it.
Guys, you don’t have to lie to kick it. You’d be surprised how many women are willing to knowingly play the side-chick role (not this woman). I’m not saying that it’s right, but you have to start out with the truth. It just makes things easier as the relationship changes and progresses.
Now if I had taken this guy up on his offer, I’d feel so bad right now. I don’t feel sorry for his fiancee’ nor do I feel like he’s a bad guy. I just think he’s a liar who didn’t have a reason to lie. *shrugs*
So guys, why are you with someone if you don’t feel comfortable claiming her and being honest about your relationship with her? Inquiring minds wanna know.